I know it's late, but Congratulations
I deactivated my Facebook during 2021. I figured that I don't really talk to most of my friends at Facebook, I'm not missing much. I don't post statuses and photos anymore. They say it is a sign of maturity that as one grows older they become more private. Only my close friends have my contact and can reach me via Viber or Whatsapp.
I activated my Facebook again this year 2025. I have fewer friends and some of the women has gotten married with different surnames. Every now and then, I search for a name I once knew from my past. I remember we were Facebook friends, but when I checked, we aren't friends anymore.
I searched for your name in Google and saw that you have gotten married. We broke up almost 2 decades ago. We were just kids when we met. I don't really have any lingering feelings of angst around it.
I truly am happy for you.
But I'll admit, I felt a bit of sadness. I pondered on my feelings for a couple of days. Why am I feeling this way for something that happened a lifetime ago? Then I realized, it is because I am saying goodbye to that part of my life; I suppose in a way to that last vestiges of my youth.
I'm not sure if you will read this or even if you remember me. I know it's late, but Congratulations. I genuinely wish you both happiness.